Girl 1- You know what??!! Daisy has a boyfriend now. He found a job here and now stays in a rented house all alone. She stays on the weekends with him.
Girl 2- Are you serious??!! She stays with him? How long have they been going around?
Girl1- Around 6 mths. Yes she stays with him. I bet she would have done it by now. Lost her flower you know what I mean.
Girl 2- God! The slut! So desperate no?! You know Jennifer right? My roomie. She has been in a relationship for 5 years. They sometimes take trips together.
Girl 1- Oh! A premarital honeymoon I suppose! I am sure she has popped her cherry by now. Actually I think, they would have done it a lot of times!
Girl 2- But she told me that they are saving it till marriage and that the seal is not yet broken.
Girl 1- The girl is lying! Just trying to save her own skin.
Girl 2- You have a boyfriend na? How is he? Till what stage have you guys gone??
Girl 1- He is fine! Been 3 mths with him now. Well, we have just kissed twice. What about you?
(No one will ever know that I slept with him in the very first month. People are so judgmental. Its better to keep quiet)
Girl 2- You know me well don’t you?! Even if my boyfriend craves for it, unless I am ready I won’t let him even touch me.
(I have done everything except the last part and I might break it soon. But I think I should keep it to myself)
So this is an average girl talk. The moment you hear that a certain friend of yours decided to take a short vacation with her guy by driving all the way to Goa and spend some days there, your mind starts its devious work. You start to assume that they will spend nights and nights having turbulent sex, instead of actually enjoying the place. You ask your friend when she gets back, about her trip and when she tells you about it, you smirk unknowingly thinking about the amount of sex they might have had. You attest her as a sex addict who is just trying to cover her deeds up by telling false stories. Why do you do that?
And even if they had sex, what makes you believe that you have the right to judge them. You yourself know that had you been in their place, you would have done the same. Even if you wouldn’t have, you have no right to attest them in any way whatsoever.
Moreover, unlike boys, girls lie to each other. We are so self obsessed and so conscious that we tend to lie. We just can’t help it. We hide our emotions, try to make our personality look clean, appear confident but deep within we know what we truly are. God only knows, when the drama will stop.
What about boys? Are they just the same?! I hope not.
P.S- I replied to the comments on my previous post. I don't feel like an asshole anymore.
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